> Perhaps "unobtrusive" wasn't the best word I could use. What I
> meant to say was to not be obtrusive about the fact that one is gay. Not
> to make a big deal out of the fact. Just as another person will treat his
> heterosexuality as "normal," so too should a homosexual treat his
> homosexuality as "normal." I hold tight to my views that whether John is
> sleeping with Michael, Sheila or both, it should have little effect on
> John's ability as a worker.
>
Or citizen. Quibbles aside, we're mostly in agreement here. Best, Dale