In a message dated 07/07/00 03:18:08 GMT Daylight Time, altamira@ecpi.com
writes:
>
> Maybe the moral is something like this: let people develop and grow as
they
> will rather than trying to squash them into pre-packaged roles; life is
> dynamic--things that stay always the same are lifeless, so let change occur
> rather than trying to keep people and relationships always the same; when a
> relationship that has been good begins to be deteriorate and become
stifling
> for one or another of the parties, change it, or let it go; when a
> relationship must end, think of it as a lesson learned or as growth rather
> than as a failure. (these things are easy to say, but they don't seem to
be
> easy for people to put into practice)
>
> Bonnie
>
How very true. It's a shame that our hearts usually get in the way of
common sense like this.
Alex
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