I sometimes find impoliteness in others disturbing; I am even, on occasion,
polite to myself. I regard rationality as necessary but not sufficient to
my current preferred existence. I believe I've come to this opinion
rationally. :)
Consequently, I find politeness to be practical. I do find myself wishing
things worked smoothly without it, but I wish my car didn't need oil
changes, too.
MMB
At 11:23 PM 12/29/97 -0800, you wrote:
>> However, in most forms of day to day interaction, there is no
>> reason *not* to be polite; there is a substantial difference between
>> politeness and altruism...one doesn't necessitate the other. Neither
>> politeness or rudeness will contribute to social breakdown...they are
>> simply two ways of looking at reality: through an optimistic, polite view,
>> or a pessimistic, rude view.
>
>I don't see politeness as optimism at all; I see it as capitulation
>to irrational standards. Learning to use the dribble glass, as it
>has been put so eloquently. And the expectation of politeness gets
>in the way of plain no-bullshit communication.
>
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>
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