At 01:20 PM 7/5/99 -0700, you wrote:
>>> A man is a good sex partner to a woman if they
>>> listen to each other and understand and appreciate each others' ideas.
>>This is a "good friend", not a good "sex partner". Some woman may
>>argue that the two cannot be disconnected.
>I hardly think that needs to be argued. I can't think of a way a person
>could be a good sex partner without being a good friend.
Anyone who was an young active adult in the late 60's and 70's can tell you of many ways they had great sex without even knowing the partners name much less being friends. The norm than was more to say "your place or mine?", "what do you do?" before asking their name. You might remember their name or even become friends later. Ah, for the good old days.
Ralph Lewis, Professor of Management and Human Resources
College of Business
California State University, Long Beach
Long Beach, California