>How about dating a smart girl with a cute ass!
>>Of course not. I am saying that we pay more attention to the things that
>>change, and to the choices we can make, than to the 'background'. You can
>>decide to say something nice, or say something mean. You can decide to
>>school or take a job. And you can decide to date the girl with the cute
>>the one who smarter. These are choices that will affect our lives and
>>we are. We don't really concern ourselves with things like breathing,
>>they are part of the background.