In a message dated 6/7/99 9:12:13 AM, you wrote:
>I am torn between the desire to control my emotions, and the desire
>to feel my emotions. Should I fight anger, or should I glory in it?
This is a misconstruction. It is not a dichotomy. One can do both at the same time, for example. One passes THROUGH an emotional state. It is not an inescapable construct.