I hate to bring this up again since obviously I don't have time to be replying to this post, but...
Control is definately not just dendrites and synapses as Cameron Reilly suggests. When you recognize your programming and then alter your own programming you create control. The motive force that tells you to change the programming is desire. Desire comes from emotion. The changing of your programming complexes things then recomplexes things as you continue to change them based on your desire to do so that came from an emotional erge that in all creates the emergent property of free will.