On the matter of what you wrote here:
I've had one experimental homosexual relationship that lasted about 2 weeks. It started as my being a kind of apprentice to a Reiki massage practitioner, who slowly desensitized me to being nude while receiving a massage, then eventually receiving oral sex. It felt liberating to know that this was *not* high risk behavior, since I wasn't receiving fluids.
I DID NOT NEED TO KNOW THAT!