Re: the fun of being viewed as a sex object (was: Re: Vicious Racism)

From: Zero Powers (zero_powers@hotmail.com)
Date: Sun Aug 12 2001 - 12:51:35 MDT


>From: Samantha Atkins <samantha@objectent.com>

>Damien Broderick wrote:
> >
> > At 12:27 PM 8/11/01 -0700, Zero wrote:
> >
> > >being viewed as a sex object (the latter
> > >seems like fun to me!)
> >
> > Hey, yeah! Then you too could have the great fun described by Loree:
> >
> > >I gave very little thought to personal safety unless I
> > >was in a known "bad area". I've had a few experiences
> > >since transition that scared [me]. Men following me...
> > >approaching me in a parking garage... making sexually
> > >explicit remarks/requests/demands. And all in areas
> > >that I knew were "safe" before transition.
> >
> > That sounds so enviable.
> >
>
>It is very different for those of us under estrogen sex hormones
>rather than testosterone. This may be one that you can't
>understand without being there. Of course some guys become
>sexual prey (especially in prisons and such) and probably
>understand a bit more.

Yes, I know there are folks without human dignity who will carry their
animal instincts out to their ultimate end (rape, murder, stalking, etc.)
and you don't have to be female to realize that being the object of that
sort of behavior would not be fun. It goes without saying (but I guess I
need to say it anyway) that that sort of thing is not what I had in mind.

This is what I had in mind: When I was an adolescent there were some girls
who were so sexually attractive to me that I would have done most anything
to get them in the sack. I knew I had little or no chance of doing that so
I would pine away in sexual fantasy. If I was a female(particularly a
sexually attractive female) I imagine there would be no such sexual pining
away. If I wanted it, I could get it, from just about any guy I wanted.
(Or at least that's how my warped imagination perceives it working.)
*That's* what seems like fun to me.

-Zero

"I'm a seeker too. But my dreams aren't like yours. I can't help thinking
that somewhere in the universe there has to be something better than man.
Has to be." -- George Taylor _Planet of the Apes_ (1968)

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