Resolving Conflicts

david_musick@juno.com
Tue, 11 May 1999 19:43:19 -0600

Lee Daniel Crocker wrote:

"Because ...diverse humans ... have directly conflicting desires. That ... very diversity of interest is what makes us unique and precious. To the extent that I can get what I want by helping you get what you want, that's great: it's called trade, and I'm all for it."

I'm all for trade too. I will trade my refusal to inflict violence on you regardless of whatever personal choices you make for your life in exchange for your refusal to inflict violence on me for making whatever personal choices I make for my life. I think that is a good trade. I will trade my willingness to find cooperative resolutions to our conflicting desires for your willingness to find cooperative resolutions to our conflicting desires. I think that sort of trade is in our mutual interest.

The first lesson of martial arts is diplomacy. When others like you, they are less likely to hurt you.

David_Musick@juno.com



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