Yes, you'd rather have a sub-population who wasn't self-selected to
discuss the topic in question.  This is why this forum may be a better
place for a discussion like this than say the newsgroup soc.men.
Alan F. Barksdale writes:
>I fancy that the popularity of _The_Rules_ stems from the uncertainties many
>women feel about their sex roles.  ... its sales suggest that it fills a need.
Yes, I think that in the absence of a broader discussion of these
issues, book likes these are serving a primary coordination role.
Which seems quite a shame.  
Robin D. Hanson  hanson@hss.caltech.edu  http://hss.caltech.edu/~hanson/